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Become who you are and go your own way

your life coach in Bonn will support you.

Let's start with a little experiment: close your eyes and imagine a lemon in your left hand. Now take a knife with your right hand and cut the lemon in half down the centre. You know that nothing can happen, it's just an imagination. Now put one half away and bring the other half to your mouth. Lick the lemon with your tongue. Observe what happens in your body now.
 

This simple imaginative experiment shows you the power of thoughts and ideas themselves on our physical processes. You have to imagine it like this: what is and has been ‘wired’ together in your brain over the course of your life has an effect on your body, on the release of hormones and messenger substances, on the activation of genes and, of course, also creates feelings. Feelings are an ingenious medium for summarising what you are experiencing. Whatever love or violence you have experienced has formed complex patterns so that you have been able to survive. You have formed habits to process things and this has found its way into your value and belief system, your identity and your sense of belonging.
 

Now imagine waking up every morning with a clear goal and the knowledge that you have control over this day, this month, over your life. It's possible - and as a life coach near Bonn, I can help you get more of it and get there. So what do you want more of? We can address this question together. I have my practice near Bonn in Königswinter, where the Siebengebirge mountains begin, almost directly on the Rhine, where you can expect a pleasant atmosphere in which you can face your challenges in a safe place.

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Trust yourself, ou will find a safe room if you let a life coach accompany you, except that your body system will calm you down, except that you can dock onto the issues that are bothering you, that you will learn to inspire and surprise yourself, that you will let your joy guide you more in the future, that you and your body will understand: I can choose! I am safe and secure! I am loving and lovable! I lack nothing, I am whole and valuable! I go my own way, set clear boundaries, can relax and both love and work!

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Don't wait any longer for the perfect moment - it's now! Arrange a free initial consultation today and discover how I can help you as a life coach near Bonn to shape your life according to your ideas. Your new chapter begins here, near Bonn. Let's work together to make your dreams come true!

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Let's talk...

Overcome your hurdles with the help of your life coach in Bonn

Inner and outer hurdles often stand in our way in everyday life. Anger, doubts, fears of all kinds or the feeling of being overwhelmed can be paralyzing and block you. Perhaps you feel stuck in your job, have been dissatisfied in relationships for a long time or have the feeling that you will never realize your dreams or even get one step further. Thought carousels like these weigh you down, your energy is blocked and you remain in loops of dissatisfaction. You no longer know how to take the next step. This is exactly where I come in as a life coach based near Bonn and we train mental self-conquest where there is no other way and gentleness and love in dealing with yourself whenever you need it.

Open your heart instead of racking your brains

welcome all your feelings and develop as a result.

We all have the potential to flourish. But how do we do that? The answer is: when we connect with ourselves, embrace ourselves and all our emotions and listen to our longing. Open your heart to your negative feelings, your sadness, your anger, your hurt, your rage, your feelings of revenge, your jealousy and envy, your helplessness, your feelings of smallness and inferiority or, conversely, to your fantasies of greatness. But also for your creativity, your moments of happiness, your authentic pride, your secure sense of sovereignty, your compassion and joy, your amazement and gratitude. They all want to be seen and perceived as feelings and not as facts. Welcoming the wealth of feelings and learning to understand their messages of importance is the task in which I am happy to accompany you as a life coach in Bonn. An incomparable metaphor for the recommended way of dealing with our feelings in their entirety can be found in the poem 'Inn' by the 13th century Persian Sufi mystic Rumi:

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This being human is a guest house.
 

Every morning a new arrival.

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A joy, a depression, a meanness,
some momentary awareness comes
as an unexpected visitor.

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Welcome and entertain them all!
Even if they’re a crowd of sorrows,
who violently sweep your house
empty of its furniture,
still, treat each guest honorably.
He may be clearing you out
for some new delight.

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The dark thought, the shame, the malice,
meet them at the door laughing,
and invite them in.

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Be grateful for whoever comes,
because each has been sent
as a guide from beyond.

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Jalaluddin Rumi (13th century) translated by Coleman Barks 

Positive results through the support of a life coach in Bonn

In our sessions together, we develop a strengthening plan step by step that is tailored to your individual needs and situation. You will learn to recognize your strengths and sources of strength and overcome emotional and energy blockages. Using techniques from positive psychology, mindfulness, hypnosystemic emotion coaching, solution-oriented short-term therapy, couple synthesis and conflict resolution support, you will gain security and clarity, be able to make better decisions and develop stable self-confidence. The positive results will be felt quickly and immediately. With each session you will become more self-reflective and allow me as your life coach in Bonn to accompany you with benevolence, curiosity and compassion.

 

You develop
 

  • more self-confidence: You become more confident in your decisions and can face challenges with a clear head and cope with them emotionally.

  • more targeted actions: Together we will define attractive, concrete, achievable goals for you and work out an action plan that will take you forward step by step.

  • greater inner balance: mindfulness helps you to live in the here and now and still make optimum use of your resources for the future.

  • more trust, perhaps even humility: before the wisdom of life and the purposefulness and accuracy of your unconscious. Mindfulness helps you to live in the here and now, to dissolve the power of the past, not to be constantly thinking about the future and yet to be able to focus and use your resources for the future at all times.

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Off to new shores of experience

Don't wait any longer for the perfect moment - it's now! It's time to set off on a journey to new shores. Arrange an initial consultation today and discover how I, as a life coach near Bonn, can help you to shape your life according to your ideas. Your new chapter begins here, near Bonn. Let's think through your problems together and make your dreams come true!

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As a life coach based near Bonn, I am also available in person in my practice or online from many other regions in German or English-speaking countries - initial life coaching sessions can be conducted conveniently and solution-oriented online so that I can accompany you wherever you are on your path to more joy in life.

 

Let's talk...

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